Deciding whether to proceed with a divorce or save your marriage is not easy for any couple. The only way to come to a decision about the future of your marriage is to ask yourselves some tough questions.
What are you fighting for?
Is your marriage worth saving? And if so, do both of you value the relationship and want to take steps to save your marriage?
Marriages are worth saving for many reasons but the reasons cited by both partners need to include an underlying love for each other and a commitment to not only save a marriage but to make marriage better.
If only one of you wants to make the effort, all is not lost. A marriage with one person trying to salvage it can still be saved, as long as that person knows the approaches to take.
What is Causing Stress in your Marriage?
Some marriages start to buckle without either partner having a grip on the actual causes. It is very easy to notice the symptoms of an unhappy marriage, as opposed to having a deeper discussion and identifying the actual causes.
A classic example of this is citing a lack of intimacy or even an affair as the reason for a divorce. In many cases these are the result of unhappiness within the marriage. They may never have happened if the initial problems in the marriage were identified, debated and resolved.
The two questions that need answering in any marriage heading for divorce involve a lot of soul searching and honesty. But these questions are the crucial first steps to getting your love back.
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